"Am I dating a 'weirdo?'"

Lady, the fact that you have to ask should tell you that the answer is "yes."

Interesting that most of the all-male respondents on "Dear Wendy" opine that the fact that her boyfriend is going to a strip club alone and getting lap dances is not something a woman should be overly concerned with, including the guy who points out that strip clubs have great bufffet lunches, which, I believe was confirmed on a recent episode of "The Glades, which just goes to prove that you can trust television.
And, obviously, you can trust the impartial opinions about men concerning whether going to a strip club is normal for a guy in a relationship.

*Sheesh*