Monday, April 26, 2010

Men and Women and the Issue of Separate Checks.

From Dr. Helen:

It seems the requests for separate checks tend to separate along gender lines. A reader e-mails:


I waited tables all through my twenties, when I started getting "real jobs." Much to my chagrin and disappontment, I am now, at 43, back to waiting tables. To be good at it requires a certain set of skills, mostly having to do with organization and social grace. All of these things came back to me practically overnight.

So did the memories/stereotypes of different kinds of customers. I am writing to see if you have insight or an educated guess on one of these oh-so-true stereotypes. If a group of men comes in to have lunch and maybe a beer, odds are pretty good that one of those men will pick up the tab. But, (ask any ten servers and this will be confirmed) if a group of women comes in, they will almost always ask for separate checks. It's always cause for comment among the waitstaff if a group of women doesn't ask for separate checks.
Seems to conform with my experience. 

Is it true, and, if so, why?

Check out the comments to Dr. Helen's post.

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