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A waiter at a restaurant near downtown took a stand for a special needs child. Now, support is flowing in from all over, thanking the waiter and the restaurant, Laurenzo's on Washington. The waiter has been working at the restaurant for about two years, and the family members at the heart of the story have been regular customers about the same length of time. But it's what took place two days ago that has a lot of people talking.It's nice of the waiter to stand up for the family with the Downs Syndrome Child, but the reaction of the other family fascinates me. Is it the case in our Brave New World - where those with chromosomal abnormalities like Down's Syndrome are routinely aborted - that a societal expectation is developing that such children do not/should not be permitted to exist? Or is it that people simply don't get the exposure to these children, such that they haven't developed the habit of charity and empathy?
Michael Garcia loves serving his customers. On Wednesday night he greeted two groups of regulars -- Kim Castillo and her family, and another group who sat in the adjacent booth.
"So we were sitting there and all of a sudden I noticed that the family across from us got up and moved to the back of the restaurant," Castillo said. "I thought, I wonder if they're moving because of us?"
The Castillo group included five-year-old Milo, who has Down syndrome. But neither Milo's mom Kim nor Garcia could have imagined why the other family moved.
Garcia recalled, "I didn't think much of it until I heard him say, 'Special needs children need to be special somewhere else.'"
After hearing that, Garcia just reacted.
"It was very disturbing," he said. "My personal feelings just took over and I told this man, 'I'm sorry, I can't serve you.'"
That family quickly left. But it wasn't until later in the evening that the Castillo family found out that their waiter had stood up for their son.
Kim Castillo said, "What went through my mind was that I was just so impressed and felt so good that somebody would stand up for another human being."
Garcia said, "It upset me because he's a five-year-old little boy. He's an angel. He's precious!"
Since then support has poured in, from the Internet and from regular customers.
Customer Bill Baker said, "I think he did the right thing -- there's the door."
And most of all, he earned the thanks of a grateful Castillo family.
Kim said, "He's good in our book!"
Garcia says if the other customers return, he will serve them just like anyone else. As for the Castillo family, they plan to remain loyal customers.
This kind of attitude slipped the leash in the past several years - here is an example and here is another one and another one - but those were in situations where people felt "entitled" because they were assaulting a much hated public figure.
And, yet, there is the ugliness of the Wonkette post which underscores that Trig Palin is "life unworthy of life":
Little baby Trig must be so glad he wasn’t aborted for this, his first Halloween, because his parents dressed him up like a political party symbol to be carried around at snarling political events. Aww. Isn’t life just grand?For some people, it seems that their first thought when they see a child with Down's Syndrome is: "Why was that child allowed to live and spoil our perfect diner at Appleby's?"